I had to add this:
O.K., lets simply go by statistics. Most studies I've read indicated that about 1.5% of all women surveyed said that they might be open to a relationship with a man who crossdresses. When I was in therapy, the therapist agreed when I asked how many wife initially thought it would be ok, but eventually turned out not to be able to accept it. so you're looking about about 0.75% of the female population as potential mates. Still, out of say, 150 million women in the U.S., that's still over a million women, assuming you're willing to date ALL ages and appearance females. They won't be easy to find, because dating a feminine male is NOT a status symbol for women, it's more something they'll be made fun of for by their girlfriends, so they won't advertise the fact. Now then, assuming you ask, and go out with 400 women, three will be able to accept it. Of that three, you then have to narrow down whether you have any other things in common with her, and if you're compatible in other ways. So, the odds are very, very high. It's not impossible; but your chances are about the same as winning the lottery. The best advice I've gotten so far, is to make friends with gay/bi women, and go with them socially; there will be some straight women around, who are more likely (but not necessarily) to be more open to different sexual/social gender roles. Encourage them to match you up, and let them know they should 'feel out' their 'target' women to see if they will be o.k. with a guy who crossdresses. Also, you have to determine where you stand on the gender line; do you want to go as far as you can, walk like a girl, change the way you talk, etc, because women will want to know that, it all will enable them to know if they will still be able to find you sexually attractive or not, and that, is the ultimate deciding factor. If there's no sexual attraction, all you're going to wind up with is a friend. Sure, that would be good, but single women looking to be set up with men aren't usually looking for 'friends'. Can't hurt, though. good luck. You'll need it.
