Quote Originally Posted by DCChris View Post
I can appreciate the fact there is a HUGE variation in how ggs look at CDs. And I genuinely understand most of the reasons in those variations. My question is really posed to any gg here who is actually attracted to someone who CDs. Why are you attracted? What is it about someone who CDs that draws you toward them, rather than just simple acceptance of someone who might be in your life? And if you don't mind, does your age make any difference; are you generally younger in age? Thanks so much in advance.
Hmm. I hope the other ladies with forgive me for answering in a general sense, but I do want to share a general observation. We've had tons of (younger?) GGs post in the new GG intro section over the years who've given the impression they loved their bf's CDing, and this was a major attraction factor for them. The trouble is, these GGs join the forum, post a few times, and then disappear forever, which leads me to believe it is the excitement of "new love" that colors everything with rose-colored glasses ... and that for a variety of reasons (the new love effect wears off?) the relationships break up after a while, which is why they don't come back.

While there may be some GGs who are specifically sexually attracted to males who present as females (more than males who present as males or if they are bi, more than other females), it is my observation from reading tons of posts here that for the most part, hetero or bi GGs who enthusiastically support the CDing even in the bedroom do learn to love all aspects of their SOs.