I know it is always better to talk things out and I can see many of you can relate in some ways to how i feel and others did not have to battle shyness. For me it has been a life long struggle just like my transgender issues. I wish to share a hub writing I wrote about my personal struggle with shyness which is applicable to this thread. Thank you!
http://ediann.hubpages.com/hub/Living-with-shyness
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