I have never been to stopcrossdressing.com and now that I know it exists I will still not go. I suppose that is narrow minded of me. At my age it has nothing to do with fetish. At my age it is great to
have something I can do that makes me feel good and takes very little energy to accomplish.
Vieja
When I was a youth and was forced to attend church I was subjected to a weekly tirade of sermons indicating everyone was going to hell for one reason or another. Sinners all! I was also subjected to tirades concerning how other Christians were 'wrong' in their beliefs. Things have not changed. I hear the same crap from the pulpit. I guess when and if I stand before God, she may ask me why I wore a dress and heels. Maybe not. Until then I decided a long time ago to treat everyone with respect.
I would guess that creating a site like that is his way of trying to force himself to stay on the "straight and narrow"; it's part of the plan to "conquer it". It sounds like a real struggle. Even though he is repressing the act, his urges have not gone away. Accepting yourself seems like a healthier way to go, especially since, once you really accept this as part (not all) of yourself and integrate it into your life (this can vary widely from person to person), the compulsive need, which he defines as addiction, can mellow out. I'll bet that even if he never dresses again, he'll always be fighting it - it's a screwed up way to live.
Being a native Marylander who loves to eat blue crabs (and heavily seasoned with Old Bay seasoning), and a coastal Rhode Islander who loves littlenecks and quahoags, I will never find eternal ife in heaven because I am the world's number one sinner and violator of Leviticus 11:10 And all that have not fins and scales in the seas, and in the rivers, of all that move in the waters, and of any living thing which is in the waters, they shall be an abomination unto you.........yeah, I eat shellfish, so I'm a sinner.
I'm also not so good with Deuteronomy 22: 5 either..... The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are abomination unto the Lord thy God.
What I find strange about some certain people who call themselves Christian is that they are obsessed with the Old Testament section of the bible, all hebrew scripture, and they mention nothing about the New Testament (the Jesus Christ part).....go figure.:facepalm:
Last edited by NathalieX66; 05-07-2012 at 09:05 PM.
I came across this website one night during one of the phases I had my clothes all put away... I read it and thought "hmm, maybe I can do that, and be 'normal'" --- That night, I went to bed in my boxers and t-shirt and woke up the next morning to go back and read more. I then closed my laptop, drove to the store, and bought a new set of panties. I went to bed that night in panties and a cami only to think how great that website was for realizing all the stupid reasons I stopped dressing up.
So that site totally worked for me :D
I did stop again for another period of time, and probably will again, but who's counting.
~Abbie
Abbie, I know what you're up to.......Good for you if this makes you happy.
I am done with the Roman Catholic church....or any other denomination. I am done with any organized form of religion, especially when it comes in the form of a book.
God/Jesus is a moot point. I'll learn my lesson come judgement day. No evidence that God doesn't exist. I feel we should be more aligned with nature as it is.
The Universe is too vast and complicated to be condensed into human literature.
Nice to meet you. Honestly if there is a deity out there, which I don't doubt the possibility of but I don't devote much time to thinking about, I hope it has better things to do than worry if I wear panties or boxers.
Let us not worry about the trivial matters of one teensy miniscule planet (Earth) amongst trillions of planets that exist in billions of galaxies, ours being the Milky Way galaxy. We are all miniscule specks in this vast universe, we are infintismal.
We've had too many wars, too much discrimination, and too much violence on this planet in the name of who has the better God.
It's too bad back a few thousand years ago when religions could still be made up, no one made a cross dressing one. I'd go to that Sunday service...
Totally! Even I know that Jesus said "it is finished" in regard to the legalism of the Established bible. (which we call the Old Testament today) The New Testament is supposed to be the Christian bible so why Christians don't follow the message of their own Christ is beyond my feeble heathen understanding.
[SIZE="2"]You are what you read, so I would advise you to read all of the positive information put forth on this site – a quick glance around will dispel this notion of “wrongness” that outsiders (and some insiders) are infected with. Anything non-understandable is wrong to some people, so you have to look at it from that angle and act accordingly…Originally Posted by Chazity
Of course, MtF crossdressing is nearly impossible to explain to someone who is steeped in all things “correct.” Talk about misinformation! I think anyone who believes in “rightness” is a danger to pleasure, happiness, experimentation, and themselves. I know what I don’t understand – it’s this notion that anything different is anathema to normalcy, and it needs to be put right before things get out of hand…
There are so many people in the world – can’t some of us have a little fun, doing something we like to do, something that hurts no one? Surely everyone has their own favorite thing to do that makes them happy – dressing up makes ME happy, and that, alone, makes it a valid enterprise. I found out “who I was” a long time ago, and there was no consternation forthcoming, mainly because I didn’t listen to any negative “take” on crossdressing. It all felt natural; in fact it couldn’t be MORE natural! One man’s pleasure is another man’s poison, I suppose, but I was lucky enough to have the courage to crossdress, and stick by my “self.”
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