Thankyou to you all.
Believe me I know how lucky I am.
Just thinking about that moment where I knew I was "caught" still makes my heart race.
I'm a pretty sensible person and as much as I want to rush round in heels and a dress, I don't intend to. I'll go at the pace my GF sets.
The best thing about it all, I no longer feel like I am doing something wrong:-)