As was suggested on another thread, which I thought was excellent advice, try to bring CDing up into the conversation, in a general way and see how she reacts, if she is totally fine with it then gently ease it into the conversation. If she gives a strong negative reaction, then you can then judge what to do. Hope this might help hon
Charlotte
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Going from generalities about CDing to specifics may not work as well as some think but agree that it is a less hazardous route. Suppose one is gay yet in a general conversation one learns that a close friend has some specific anti gay feelings. Then that friend is told, "Hey, I'm your best friend but I am gay." Frequently, there is a change in attitude toward being gay and the person is more accepting. It your case you will have to go by your evaluation of your friendship. Telling her early is better than later especially if she is going to invest emotion in you.
Last edited by Laura912; 05-21-2012 at 08:10 AM.
I'd show up at her house enfemme and see what happens! Nothing like the direct "get it the hell over now" method!
Yeah, kinda thought you'd go for the "Full speed ahead and damn the torpedoes!" approach.Originally Posted by Karren Hutton
No. I know enough about her to be confident that broaching clearly stated boundaries would not go over well.
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