Most of the problems with TG/TS/CDs going out is in the individuals head. Too many think they are going to attract attention. The truth is, most people are too worried about thier own little world to worry about yours. Yes, undoubtedly there will be one jerk in every crowd. There are several ways to handle him but the best is to just move on. He isn't worth a confrontation. I have been in biker bars to ice cream shops. I rarely have had anyone say anything except positive things to me. We tend to use this as an excuse not to leave the confinds of our closet. And yes Suzy, there are those that do not want to ever leave thier closet. That is OK too.