I'm reading the book My Husband Betty, I can relate to so much of it, it is a good book , really helps understand a lot of what I've gone trought in my life, there is a lot of research that is not very entretaining but somewhat educational, the reality is there is still a lot of unknowns out there and nobody seems to have an answer for it, but as much as we suffer and strugle with who we are it is always great to be girls sometimes and even better when we can share our toughts and feelings with people like us, I am very, very thankful for my wife who has always made my life better. I kept this aspect of my life from her for nine years and when I finally told the truth she not only accepted me she has accepted Michelle into our lives and helps her be a better woman. I am also thankful for this site which hels us decompress form our daily lives as men, a place we can share our femeninity without being ashame, I am still looking for friends in my area in similar situations (in a relationship looking only for for support and friendship) that I can talk to, keeping in mind that I am married and as flexible as my wife is I consider her input in the people I interact with and I do have two little ones at home who are unaware of Michelle.
Be well, Michelle