Unless it involves the jeopardy of losing your marriage/ relationship, or your job......who cares?
Lately these days, since my hair is brushing my shoulders, and most of my facial hair is gone, and I often wear earrings in guy mode, I look more gender ambiguous as of late. This is a very comfortable place for me. But a year ago, I looked like a very ordinary guy with short hair. My friends have seen my en femme photos, so there's no secret, and I have been treated great without any change to my friendships. People are too concered with paying their bills, and wondering how they are going to pay for their children's college education.
This is not a brag, but I have taken some heat for a while, and it has died down. Life is good, but crossing the gender line publically is something I struggle with it but I feel the fight is worth it. At least I know I am me and no one can take that away from me.
