First I'd like to thank all the GG members here that are taking part in this thread.
These types of threads are always helpful and informative.

Now I have another question.
A while back in the Loved Ones section One of the GG members here wrote.

"I feel massively alone. My best girlfriends in the world that I have known for 20 plus years are in the dark about this huge revelation in my life. Many people have been commenting to me that are in my innermost circle that something seems wrong, asking what's up. I just keep saying nothing. How will I ever be close to these people again now?"

Did you feel this way when you found out about your SO? Do you still?

Have you been able to balance the need for secrecy about your SO with your need for support from your families and friends? If so how?

What would you want me, As your transgender SO, do to help?