How so? (BTW swinging is rarely having sex with a stranger...most the time the groups are acquainted in some manner. What you are thinking of is casual affairs which I can even associate with some parts of CDing ). How is it different?Originally Posted by Jill Devine
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IMO, she probably wants a manly-man. I think you should indulge her since she indulges your crossdressing.
The only thing I can equate with CD'ing is if the woman decides to grow leg and under arm hair, crop her head and pack away the girly stuff (clothing, make up etc). That would be a fair comparison of apples to apples.
I honestly couldn't find the words to begin to try and explain the difference between dressing and swinging. It would be like asking me to explain the difference between any two unrelated things, like the difference between the moon and the toaster in my kitchen. LOL. Just my opinion.
My sweet wife and I used to swing, but the chain broke and the swing fell, so we had to stop swinging 'till I can get the chain fixed. Maybe someday when I get the chain fixed, maybe some of us can get together and sit on the front porch and swing 'till dark.
L&R........Tara
[QUOTE=RADER;2871312]Now thats my type of Swinging. And that is a mighty fine looking swing you have there.
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LOL!!!!!
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Ah! And the prodigal child returns. So, Chazity, a lot of people have made suggestions. What are your thoughts on your personal situation now? Has anything changed? Any updates? I'm afraid the thread got sorely off track in your absence.
Reine
I tried very hard to get my wife interested in swinging. Now here it is thirty some years later and I can honestly say that I think it would have helped our marriage. We are not sexually compatible very much at all,very different sexual wants and needs.
I understand what Lorileah is saying and agree.
Update. LOL this just in from cazitys news broadcast ...... I have talked to my So on the points that all over you ladies have offered.,and we have come to the agreement that. We are gonna take this slow, our marriage is more important than any desire we have, that's why I keep chazity a secret, and she keeps her being bi sexual. A secret. Its not worth our kids going through more then they have to in school, and not worth our family........thank you to all that have given me so much to conceder., and my wife and I give all lots of hugs and kisses to ya
I hope it works out for you, Chazity. I really do. I hate for people to end up in the dumps like I did, no human being should have to go through what I did.
And after two tours in the Balkans, six in Africa (various deployments to pull US citizens out), and three in the Sand, I think I'm done with my share of misery.
My ex dumped me in the middle of my last Sand tour. She decided the one she was "swinging" with was the one she wanted to be with. Oddly it wasn't any catharsis when she was dumped by him for some other ... individual.
-- Melissa
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