Blending in seems to be a common "goal" for the vast majority here when going out en femme. Presumably, they spend a great deal of time on themselves before leaving the house?
If you are one of those "I just want to blend in people", just exactly WHAT does that mean? No one stares or gives you a funny look the whole time out? Or, you don't have to interact or talk with anyone? [Probably the easiest way to give yourself away - your voice]
Or does it simply mean being treated with courtesy and respect?
Or do you want to be TREATED like a Lady?