when I have sex with my SO I try to make her happy in a soft and gentle way, yes I am submissive, the sex is sensual. Do I fantasize about men, yes, as I am bisexual. My SO is Domme, and pansexual so I guess we are lucky and well matched. I love her dearly she is my everything and my soul mate. I don't require anything else. Whilst I may fantasize about men, I could not share my life with a man, I am not gay, and to be perfectly honest finding a good male is difficult
