Get the relationship on a reasonably firm grounding and then tell her.
Consider the worst case scenario and find the Right time, not necessarily on a dinner date or some romantic situation.
Tell her before you both get too serious, you can test the water carefully by asking her views on alternative lifestyles.
Try to be tactful and sympathetic towards her.
I consider you have about a 20 percent success rate.
If you wish to continue dressing, "You have to tell her".
All the best in your relationship and keep researching the subject and take note of what others will advise you.
To Prene. I don't think you have told them too early or too late. They did not want any part of it or did not understand.
What about the other five percent?
