Sigh.
I'm in this situation now, or I hope I will be. I've been "seeing" this girl for 2 months now? We aren't...dating as such. She has issues to work through, but I know she likes me, and I'm prepared to give her as long as it takes. I KNOW, this one is going to be for the long haul, serious keeper.
I'm working up my nerve to tell her soon. I think a decision point is approaching for her. Our conversations are almost painfully honest, subjects covered at this point, are ones you don't normally get into before physical intimacy, or at least when you are somewhere on the field if not yet having scored a home run, to use a common phrase.
I've thought about just burying this part of me, and just pretending. it would mean a total purge and shopping for expensive mens briefs. Don't think it would work. The subject of crossdressing was raised yesterday, I jokingly suggested wearing a skirt to work to be cooler, her response was jocular, and suggested I pass it off as a Summer kilt. etc
The stress of holding this back from her is beginning to tell. I don't WANT to be dishonest with her.
My view is tell her, in a controlled manner, in an appropriate setting. I have NO idea what her response will be, this is just my opinion.
