Anne i want to say THANK YOU you have just helped me more in 5 mins then i have been able to do in 64 years you have shown me that is so important for me to open up and let me be know to others and most importantly allow me to be me as a whole person no person except my wife has know the whole me and i see now that i need that for me to be a whole person again THANK YOU Love Hugs Ronda