Welcome to the site and, yes, you are definitely in the correct place. If you have done enough reading you will more or less understand that there is a whole spectrum to transgenders (used in the sense that transgender encompasses the complete spectrum, which some disagree with). So you have someone that likes to wear panties, another likes to dress completely with lingerie, some type of false breasts, wigs, makeup, nice out fit and then stay at home and enjoy the moment, sexually or just chilling out, then you have those like me that dress completely and go out and have no sexual satisfaction from do that. From there we are entering the transsexual side where people are from my situation all the way to needing to transition into a life as a full time woman with or without major surgeries. That was all for some basic Transgender 101 education.
So, your BF is somewhere in that spectrum and may be just at the level he is comfortable with and has no desire to go further. Actually, this site is also a good place for him too. We are all different so what you read here may or may not be applicable to your BF. Enjoy your stay, ask your questions (please do not be shy), and after you get 10 posts you will be able to join the FAB Section (Female at Birth), which is primarily for the Female SO's of transgenders. It is really a safe haven to rant, rave, support and discuss issues you encounter as you try to come to grips with your new situation. I wish you the best and hope to be able to answer some of your questions in the near future.
