If I ever find another SO, this may be the approach to take. I'm at a point where I don't want to date someone for a while, then try to find the right time to tell her I'm a CD. I don't want it to be a secret with my partner, but I also don't want to be outed to everyone. If she rejects the idea there's a good chance she will have to share it with someone. "OMG, he's a crossdresser!"
