Hey Stephanie
I'm so sorry if my post came across as insensitive, and even more sorry that I seem to have read the situation correctly.
I can't imagine how hard it is for you to live as you do in a situation where you not only have an unaccepting spouse, but one who has the professional disposition to actively oppose your rights to accept who you are.
I have an unaccepting spouse, who although fairly hostile to my want to crossdress, sees her viewpoint as objectively narrow. She wouldn't treat a friend of hers to the same judgement that she views me with, she admits. But there's a shred of understanding.
So - you have a lot of sympathy and hugs from me. I truly hope that she sees the Hirt that it causes you, and learns to love the whole of you. She loves all of who you are now, I hope she can learn to love the parts she can't understand (just yet).
Hang in there
Darla
