L.P.,
You are almost exactly on course with your loving approach to supporting your other half. Diving in, studied work, seeking advice, etc. All right on target.
BUT, if you feel more than a little angst ridden, maybe you should gift him/her with a Brand New Ferrari 458 Spider. Red or Yellow. You will then be able to bask in the glow of having done the right thing.
AND, two hot babes racing around the countryside with the top down... Oooooh!
Huntress
