Quote Originally Posted by kimdl93 View Post
The question is whether you are gay or not. Maybe you don't know. I'm assuming he knows you are a CDr, right? And he's gay, right? If the two of you are on the same page in that regard, then the question is how to do so safely. People can be differnt in RL than on line. So why not meet in a public place the first time and the decide if you want to get together again in the future.
I agree with Kim. Find out beforehand what each of you expect from the other. And meet in a public place the first time. Maybe the first few times.

Dating someone you met on the Internet is a risky process even between hetrosexual males and females. Thow crossdressing, transgender or gay into the mix makes it really risky.