Given that from your number of posts you're fairly new here I would suggest you give it time and grow your circle of contacts as you wish, not randomly as it seems to be on social networking sites.
I'm not abandoning this community is the thing, I think it's great. I'm just looking to branch out a bit is all.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.