Quote Originally Posted by Antoinette View Post
First off because I don't drink to get drunk. Secondly I was there! I know what happened and how. And lastly they all lied in the end. Seems like you were offended as well. Look, like I said I wasn't trying to offend so just chill out.
My posting was intended as no-nonsense advice, nothing more. Offended? Yes, a bit, but I realized that you didn't intend it to be offensive, just didn't stop to think about how you phrased things, and my previous response didn't mention that at all.

My aim in responding was an attempt to point out to you that you've got a significant problem with booze and drugs, and that's almost certainly part of the problems you're having with friends.

If you've drank to the point of spending a significant part of the night in the bathroom throwing up, then you were drunk, whether you intended to get drunk or not, Antoinette.

Take my posting as advice from an elder who was dressing and going out to clubs before you were born and is now trying to pass on what I've learned from past mistakes of mine and my friends to one of the youngsters.

Carol