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Since this thread is specifically addressed to bisexual people, than I'm just going to assume that every one who posted is bisexual. I mean, why else would somebody read and post in a thread that was clearly asking about your bisexuality and how it has evolved over time?Originally Posted by BLUE ORCHID
I only like GG and truly transgendered M2F women or girls. I don't consider the latter 'male' so I guess I'm bi but from a girl-on-girl (lesbian) perspective. In fact, I don't even have any male friends or aquaintances at all. Could never have a relationship with any kind of male including males who crossdress no matter how femme they may appear. If an M2F appearing/behaving individual isn't authentically, psychologically feminine in a truly inward mind-wise sense to begin with (all clothing aside), then that person is a male posing as female and of no interest to mua. If that seems confusing to someone then they're male by constitution no matter their outer appearance. So...I'm def not bi in the sense you're using it.
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In boy mode I am very attracted to my wife.
In girl mode I'm neuter. I enjoy the presence of women but don't think of them sexually.
It's the same with men, but I'm a lot more reserved with them because I'm unsure of how to respond if one of them might be attracted to me. Luckily, with my looks this is unlikely to be an issue!
Eryn
"These girls have the most beautiful dresses. And so do I! How about that!" [Kaylee, in Firefly] [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]
"What do you care what other people think?" [Arlene Feynman, to her husband Richard]
"She's taller than all the women in my family, combined!" [Howard, in The Big Bang Theory]
"Tall, tall girl. The woman could hunt geese with a rake!" [Mary Cooper, in The Big Bang Theory]
For a while now i have had conflicting thoughts about what i feel but on friday night just gone i went clubbing in full female dress up with my best friend (who indecently is a lesbian girl ) I was very worried at the start very confused with my feelings ( I had been in a hetro relationship for 13 years ) but i met the most most wonderful and understanding guy and to cut a long story short he showed me what i had been missing ! That night. The thing is he treated me like a lady something i have never experienced before and it felt so damn good ! yes i am a guy who likes to dress as a lady but to him i was all woman Enough said
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Imagine a world where there were no STDs or unwanted pregnancies...
I would have done everything possible with every form of gender...many times.
I loathe condoms, so I have limited myself greatly.
My sexual orientation was strictly women before I began to venture out as a woman. Once I got the attention of men, I found I enjoyed it and love pleasing men yet I still remain attracted to women. I suppose my perfect mate would be a woman with functioning male parts.
Oh my has it! I am crazy about sexy women but to be dressed as one and have guys lust for you...just yummy!
One of the reasons I dress is because I am so enthralled with women, their softness, smell, gentleness and of course awsome cloths. While my sexual taste is for women, when dressed, I do have an oral turn on for clean, well groomed men. Don't like hairy guys at all.
I had bi relations befor marriage I remained faithful after but never lost the urge. Now that I am single again I would love to be with a man again, especially when dressed, or even another cd would be interesting and enjoyable.
hugs rita
Dressing is not a choice.
Its a passion.
Im attracted to both and I do feel the urge when I see a guy I choose however to not act on it since I do put faith in my marriage and love my spouse. If i was single again then I would but I dont plan to be so I never will act on it.
variety is the spice of life
I'm in the still pondering stage. I want to be an attractive woman to a man. I think (more so when dressed) how nice it would be to have a man treat me like a lady, to hold my hand, to feel his strong arms around me as we dance slowly. Yet I can't see myself going beyond that so I do get confused.
I believe that I am attracted to women dressed or not dressed. Although I have never been sexual with a woman dressed. I also believe that my attraction to men dressed or not dressed is growing as I am growing older.
I bi-ness has become men & CD's only. Emphasis on the former.
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When I was in Jr High and High School (11-18) I was strongly attracted to girls, because I wanted to BE one. I knew about sex, and had read many erotic stories, but picture of naked women didn't get me excited, pictures of women dressed in lingerie, or even skirts, and heels would be more arousing, because I would imagine myself dressed like that. I had a few sleepovers with friends who tried to make a pass at me. I told them I was flattered, and wanted to be their friends, but I didn't really want to get sexual. When I started kissing and petting with girls, I liked kissing and I loved getting them aroused and bringing them to orgasms, but I didn't want them to touch me. It was like I would imagine I was them and experience their pleasure.
More interesting is that over time, even though I liked women who dressed in the kinds of clothes I wanted to wear, the ones I got into long term relationships with were more "butch", often a bit heavier, and more aggressive. One was actually taking the pill because she was too masculine. When I first met my first wife, she and her best friend were both dressed like a pair of bull dykes. Even my one really feminine fiance had to get very aggressive to get into my pants, and had to tie me down before I could orgasm.
Today, I'm married to a woman who sings tenor, has a low voice, and can be feminine or masculine depending on her moods. She's more than woman enough for me, and more than man enough.
I think, after Debbie came out, that if I had met a man who was handsome and sexy and wanted me dressed and beautiful and sexy and would have been able to support me, I might have been very open to the possibility of a relationship with him. It had been so many years of zero support for Debbie, including a 9 year marriage in which my first wife did everything she could to suppress Debbie, to discourage or avoid sex, and to use it to manipulate me.
Fortunately, I was introduced to a woman who encouraged me and shared me with her lesbian friends. I fit right in.
When that relationship ended, I met another woman who liked Debbie but couldn't agree on where to live. She wanted the mountains and wilderness, I liked the city. After 16 years of seeing each other a few times a month for a few months a year, we finally ended it.
When I met my second wife, she knew from the moment she saw my profile that I was transgendered. I even told her that I was transsexual, but had decided not to transition because I didn't think I would have a good outcome (too tall, too big in the chest, voice too low...). She has used her strap-on, and I've enjoyed that, and there are times when she really does pay the man. It's a lot of fun.
I have done a 3 way with a woman and another man, but he wasn't all that attractive and I wasn't dressed. I had a great time, but after 4 hours of making love together, he got too tired, she got too sore, and I got bored. She wanted something really amazing so I tied her up and finished her off with a magic wand - while her husband watched her go into orgasms non-stop for about an hour. She finally begged me to stop and was totally satisfied. It was fun. I just wish I had been doing it as Debbie.
I find myself with Me having a problem with putting myself in a gay/straight label. I consider this to be likend to a radio volume dial-The dial isnt hi low its a plethera of increases or decreases on its way to hi/low. Some will be on one or the other and some will find themselves on that dial somewhere-For me I shifted at times. Many issues may have caused this/ As I age I realize that this for me, is no big deal. Wherever I am on the dial of sexuality is where I supposed to be so I let it be.
The wonderful thing about this perspective is the freedom it grants me. Now its not a licence to lie and cheat--The opposite it is a chance to be open and honest with me//The loved ones around me.
Hope I'm on topic--Love you all!
Bi-ness?
Yeah, by bi-genderness has evolved.......and now I can't make up my mind to shop for shoes & make up, or shop at Home Depot for table saw blades, and copper pipe.
To me men are ickie...........
All I ever wanted was to be a girl. Is that really asking too much?
like others have said ,when dressed as a female I am attracted to men ,but when dressed as a male it is only women for me. I really don`t understand this concept .
The first time I was with a man ,I had a lot of guilt ,but have gradually accepted that I am attracted to both.
I am aattracted to guys while en fem but women when in man mode 0.0
I've read all the posts in this thread and this could be very confusing to those who question what bisexuality really is. For me, and this is probably just a matter of semantics, I consider myself to be sexually dual. Some would just say I have become gay and maybe that's somewhat true. I know this, sometimes when I see certain women, they turn me on completely and I think I'd really like to be with her. At other times, when I see a really nice looking guy, the same thing happens.
Genetics determined what I am, a man. Even if I had SRS, breast implants, and take female hormones for the rest of my life, a simple genetic test would reveal the reality that I was born and will always be a man. My mind tells me something completely different, though. I think of myself as a woman, especially when dressed. Dressing heightens everything female, including sex drive. Since I don't have female sex organs, if I have sex with a man, it is homosexual sex plain and simple. I'm not saying it's wrong, I'm just saying that is the way it is.
I have loved two women in my lifetime. Both are exquisite ladies. To date, I've never loved a man but I have really enjoyed being with a few men. If that makes me dictionary bi, then so be it. These labels we allow to be put upon us limit our life experience most of the time anyway. I am who I am, most of the time I'm satisfied with my dual personality. Sadly, I don't think there will ever be a complete resolution for me. But the future is bright.
Random thoughts:
This thread appears to be "bi" in that it asks for one thing and despite some folks calling out others for posting in it...people still are anyway.
To the folks who are in the "you either are bi or you aren't" camp, all I have to say is considering that many folks on this site identify with more than one gender...and those lines have been crossed...and in some cases purged, then crossed again...I think saying "I'm straight, but" is acceptable in some cases. Maybe someone WAS Bi, or is BI curious etc.. I know that either way...some folks still feel they shouldn't be in this thread!
Lastly, I am straight...however when I was dancing as Sophia in Las Vegas I was dancing with a group of women. I did not have sexual desires for any of them. In fact all I wanted was the guy in the group to grab me and twirl me around the dance floor. I did not want him sexually at all, but I could see how someone who felt as I did...the desire to be treated as a woman when dressed as one...could develop other fantasies that include sexual acts. For the record, I wanted a drink bought for me, a dance or two, I'd even allow an ass grab...but that would be it.
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