DM (again - waiting for that name change) - please keep posting! Lurking is all fine and well, but your opinion so matches my spouses view of my dressing that it's good to hear. It's the does of medicine that we should all know exists at one time or another in our relationships. You're trapped by your spouses activities and are caught in a no-win situation. So be it. At some point you and he (making sure to use te pronoun you asked for) will figure out some resolve and we would all like to know what it is. And even hopefully hear from your spouse. Heck - I might even get my wife to join.
Your comments are appreciated.
Darla