Usually, one of the first things a therapist asks if discussing (establishing) transexualism is 'do you dream as a girl?'. I have all my life.
Good question. Dreaming as a girl has only happened with me less than a handful of times, but in many of my dreams, I don't have a decidedly male role either.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.