Ok, you have to think about it from a womans point of view really because if you don't you will never understand it. OK, so you just got done pulling your daughters clothes out of the dryer and you by chance notice that you are wearing the same panties. You come upstairs and inform me that your daughter and you are wearing the same panties and how cool it is. OK, so first of all Ew... Gross you are looking through your daughters clothes and you are what? wearing the same panties? hmmm.... what else are you doing that I don't know about. It is kind of perverted that "HE" is wearing the same kind of panties that "OUR" daughter is wearing. Who knows maybe he is stealing her panties or maybe she is stealing "Her" or "His" panties and wearing them which to be honest... I would probably think you were stealing her panties and wearing them even if it was the other way around at first thought. So proclaiming this to your wife was probably not the smartest thing to do as I myself would be grossed out by such a statement and look at you weird and funny for the next couple of days as I was trying to figure things out from that statement. Even if you did sit down with me and try to explain things and how you found her panties and blah blah blah that still would not be good enough for me. All I know you may be trying to get into the clear with an explanation and thus digging yourself into a deeper hole, which by then you would probably be so deep things would start to get rocky. So my advice don't EVER state you are wearing the same panties as someone else unless they know you would never do such a thing no matter how long you may have been married or known each other there are still those people who have different backgrounds and who knows maybe your wife was molested at a younger age and just by you saying that brought back unwanted memories. You have to think of the reprocussions that this may have brought just by one statement. Especially, if your wife is already un-accepting of your dressing you might of well just shot yourself in the foot while you were at it. IMO you just stuck your foot in your mouth and I don't know how to help you recover so I can't even give you any advice.

Angela