The trouble is, Leslie, that we all want the 'anchor' to be there, but none of us want to be him/her? I often find myself thinking that I should be more 'out there'... but then the cr*p of life invades and I tunnel into my 'zone'... The trouble is that I do not really know if I do want to be 'out there'? Being closeted isn't as bad as it sounds!
