Wow how's this for timing???Eden laneOriginally Posted by Leslie Langford
India has a TS host also.
The thing is that in most cases the CD here can put it away and not have to show it, If you are Gay or Lesbian you cannot just shut it off. So they had a huge investment. When you are told you cannot love someone it is far bigger than telling someone they cannot wear panties. To put it more simply, most here could not care less less, they just like the thrill (Like today's post about biking underdressed and then "forgetting" they were underdressed...that just says to me that it is the thrill NOT the clothing, otherwise why would you even care about your underwear to start with?).
How many times must we say "It is only clothing"? and then have someone state how "girly" they feel, or how shaving your legs is "feminine"? Really? Why is it feminine? You can say "I like the feel of smooth skin". But no, some have to make it sexual.
But we preach to the choir here. So many fear the loss of something that it is just easier to get your fix (wow there that makes it soooo much better because a GG who reads that will say..."See...you do it for a thrill"). But it is true. If it were suddenly not a stigmatized action, 90% here would go find a new "hobby".
Why is dressing in a hotel better than meeting a woman (or man) in a hotel? Don't we make that an action that asks to be scrutinized? (OP's point except I don't see the same people she mentions as all bad people...really the Ex-president of the US???).
The point is as log as the mice can hide and feel safe when the lights are turned on, they will continue to sneak out when the cat is busy elsewhere. Of course those are the same mice who scream about how their SO is SO unaccepting because they were sneaking behind the SO's back for 10-20-30- years. A lie is a lie, sneaking is sneaking, hiding is hiding.
edit, since Leslie has to bring up morals...lets not forget that some of the greatest people in the world had affairs...even Canadian PM's. I get the point, cheating is cheating but c'mon You going to paint JFK with that brush?
