For me I guess it is ...my sex is male, my gender is female and my sexual orientation is strongly towards women. A man does not do it for me in any way if he looks like a man. If the person is a man who looks like a woman, for instance a transexual, I am attracted to that also. It is the female form I am attracted to. This does not change for me whether I am done up as a man or a lady. In fact I prefer friendships with females, crossdressers, and transexuals as well over the friendship of a man. Always have.

Am I a mixed up mess or what? I am a man, who dresses as a woman, and who behaves as a lesbian.