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[Wildaboutheels]

Fluffy, I find it odd that so few people ever mention it at these Forums so I will. POWER. One possible contributing factor for your SO [or any guy] to CD [even if it might or might not be comepletely unconscious] Power by the simple virtue of being female [at least once a female gets into her teens] and is far better able to "manipulate" males into "helping" her out in some fashion than a male would be able to "manipulate" any females. I certainly hope you agree? Being a male, I can tell you that a lil smile here or a lil wiggle there by an attractive woman probably affects us males far different than most females. It's that silly male VISION "weakness" thing that so many men are susceptible to.

Of course this is undoubtedly going to work a whole lot better if the woman is "attractive". The more attractive she can make herself the greater her power and I think that can go on till the woman grows old and dies. EVERYWHERE you look, the evidence is overwhelming. Women have so many more choices in clothes and spend all that time and effort on hair and makeup because it increases their odds with more men. IT DOES NOT WORK THE SAME WAY FOR MEN. Which is the reason that men do not have such a diverse selection of clothing as women and why it is NOT necessary for men to spend so much time [so they don't] on their outward appearance. The more ATTRACTIVE a woman is the more power she has. But simply being female gives her some power unless she is very "unattractive" for some reason. And YES, we are only talking about the wrapping here and not the person inside but an attractive woman will have more/better chances of being approached by and having a conversation with a guy which is the only way to begin to unravel the person inside. Her odds are better, plain and simple of finding a "good/better" mate.

Name 5 supermodel females.

Now name 5 supermodel males. How about 1 supermodel male? Women just do not care that much about a guy's looks, plain and simple REALITY.

How many actresses or female singers/entertainers can you name that are "quite" overweight and/or unattractive? Compare that to males of the same variety. The evidence is overwhelming. Yes, women "have to" spend all that time and energy on their appearance but they get "power" from their presentation. IF women received no benefits, they would not do it. True or false? Some women can sail through life or at least a long way on looks alone? How many guys do you think could do it?

I think most all Humans enjoy compliments no matter how, where or why they get them. Females are far more likely to receive compliments than men.

One last thing. I'll bet few if any GGs have never been envious of another woman's looks OR witnessed or thought that a woman somewhere, probably got her job [whatever it might be] because of her looks and not her talent or the person inside?