That is a very good question. I don't really think of myself as a lesbian; although, the clothes adds some wonderful dynamics. On the other hand my wife is somtimes uncomfortable showing affection when we are out fully dressed with hair and make-up because it makes her feel like a lesbian, needless to say it becomes a fine line. End result if I am more than happy to go out with her either dresses or fully dressed depending on what she want. I don't complain either way.
