You listed three options that focus on the CDrs needs or desires. There's also the SOs interests to be considered Acceptance doest imply always mean endorsement, but does suggest that the SO has jade an affirmative choice for the relationship. A lasting relationship depends upon some level of acceptance of each others differences, whether one views these as strengths, weaknesses or just personality quirks.
Never really had that need. MY GF is okay with who I am and what I do. She tells me I "clean up nicely" as Ericka and enjoys being with me en femme and dancing with me. The bottom line is that she knows I'm her man and that is what really counts Hon.
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That's a lovely answer Kate xxOriginally Posted by Kate Simmons
Never really had that need. MY GF is okay with who I am and what I do. She tells me I "clean up nicely" as Ericka and enjoys being with me en femme and dancing with me. The bottom line is that she knows I'm her man and that is what really counts Hon.
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If I wanted to know what a GG felt about her SO telling her that he is a cder then I would have asked that question ....
The options I listed are my way of trying to understand (as a GG who has - just -accepted my SO cding) what cders feel about wives acceptance ... any other reasons from cders about their feelings will be gratefully received too
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