the crossdressing arc is probably the thing that upset my wife the most. When we were first married, I occasionally indulged in thigh-hi's and garter belts. Over time, it's become full on dressing. The garter belts gave way to panty hose and now I'm all about wigs and make up and 'regular' women's clothes. So her argument has always been ,"where you goin' with this??"
