I have had a thought
Painful as it maybe I have realized that cross dressing is the new taboo in society. Not only is CDing frowned upon but it is actually ridiculed upon in today's society. I was talking at length to my friend who I recently told about my dressing she was cool with it but our conversation went into depth as to why we dress and for what reasons we indulge ourselves. My friend who has recently returned to the UK from a long period of living in Spain. Attitudes in Spain are somewhat different from in the UK and cross dressing is more frowned upon on the continent than here in Britain. Our conversation turned into attitudes and the fact that the Spanish were old fashioned in there attitude towards most things and CDing is most defiantly not a thing that you can get away with outside the big city's. My friend lived in Tenerife for 10 years and the locals there are very backward in there thinking compared to us Brits and things like charity shops ie oxfam British heart foundation Red cross don't exist. What I am trying to say is that where I live in the UK is a small town and forward thinking in small towns doesn't seem to exist and if you want to take cross dressing outside then you need to move to a big city to be more inconspicuous. Are we that undesirable that we cant wear what we want without fear of persecution and ridicule. I used to live in London and I reckon that if you wanted to CD there no problem. I read a thread on this site a person went to a gay bar dressed and got the piss taken out them big time. For goodness sake it is just clothes why why why cant we just wear what we want without wondering if we pass or blend in we are not hurting anyone leave us alone.