I see where you are coming from. I agree that some may put dressing as a higher priority. However, since for many others it is something they have do and have even tried stopping, it is really a need to dress and not a matter of being more important than dating someone. I have heard many here state clearly that they would rather not CD because it interferes with everything else and cause more problems than the joy it brings when they can dress. It may be just a matter of semantics between importance (priority) and need (can't stop) while still very much wanting to date, plus the fears of what I mentioned in my first post here.
