There are so many postings here but there is one thing stands out to me on the board. As a GG I think one of the issues I see most are the "testing the boundries" between a GG and and SO. I put this in the same category of a child testing the boundries of a parent. I have seen GG's here who do their best to be supportive and their SO pushing the boundries without thinking of the cause or effect it will have on the GG. As a parent, this was the one thing with my child that would drive me nuts. Instead of thinking about what their supportive GG or W etc would think, they do it anyway without thinking of the consequences of their actions. If a GG/SO is supportive of the dressing and have discussed certain aspects of dressing that they are uncomfortable with I have noticed those who "just do it". Examples: shaving, wigs, going beyonds the boundries thereby ignoring the needs of those that love them. This to me is a major issues that does not take into the feelings or needs of the partner. Just my 2 cents but I believe if some would think before they do and really see what they are doing, it would change alot. I also think if more GG's did what their SO was doing and did whatever they wanted maybe the SO would begin to think about how their actions are affecting the woman who love them. Just my thoughts
