We can be who we want to be only in our heads for most of us. I love looking down and seeing the long legs in heels and the boobs. I look in the mirror and the fantasy all goes away. I've thought of giving it all up since I can't look like I want. But I'm still holding out for a make over service and see what could be done with professional help. Of course, that would mean telling all to my wife. She does not like me without facial hair.