No. It's perfectly understandable and perfectly normal. If everybody had courage, then how would we recognize the courageous?
That was unfair.
Some people have dependents - not everyone is cut out to be a soldier, and not everyone is in a situation where doing that would be even remotely fair to others.
It ain't always just about us.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.