yes april

i'm thinking about quality of life over the long haul...not just for us but for our familys
is transitioning or not transitioning going to leave you with a sense that you lived a full life? give you a better quality of life?? its a hard question...its a risk...the rewards are unknown...
and its human nature to be a poor long term decision makers...so i've been commenting here that its WORTH IT to hashout/argue controversial ideas..its tough love OR compassion, its AND...

people argue harder over which sports team is better!!!

In hindsight that comment was not as clear as it could have been..sorry about that!