Quote Originally Posted by ReineD View Post
But, I think the consensus is pretty strong that if a person has enjoyable use of the male anatomy, this kinda disqualifies her from being a woman.

This doesn't mean that non-transitioners, non-fulltimers will not have strong feminine identification, however ... which brings us back to the concept of gender non-conformity, or non binary gender.
Gonna have to disagree with there Reine, (though I do agree 99.99% of most of your post!) but IMHO it's the state of mind of how your enjoying the use of the anatomy that you have. For example reversing roles, (I won't go into details but if you try to put yourself on the receiving side of what your doing) it might be in your mind but then again that is the biggest sex organ we all have!
I was talking with a friend tonight in almost this regard, but it was more life in general, we were discussing my progress with the treatment here. He mentioned I was in high spirits even though with the process here I was a year behind where I wanted to be. I replied that though frustrating, it was easier knowing I was still heading in the right direction and I've always lived to make the best of what I got. Now if I had everything yesterday or better yet yesteryear then I'm sure I'd be even more positive than I am currently. Though the pysch Dr. asked how I would feel if they delayed my treatment and all I could say is I would deal with it at the time cause I don't know how it would affect me till it happens... (Darn more rant, soo sorry!)

Sorry for the rant, but in short... most people do need to 'relieve' some pressure now n then