To me Reine, and I would never diminish the fact that a TS individual has the real sense that they were born in the wrong body. The brain doesn't match, period.

However, for a lot of us, (as you know so well) feel just as strongly that we were born TG. The gender spectrum isn't black and white, some of us exist in between, not because we choose to but because we were destined to, created to, and have to.

Happiness can be elusive, however with effort, can be found.