Quote Originally Posted by Barbara_Jean View Post
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I have gone out many times and have passed 100% each time. The “Acid Test” .... I NEVER got a Glance or a look from anyone. ....
Barbara Jean, I have to call you out on this. No, you have not passed 100%. And, you didn't "notice" anyone glancing. The public at large, be they in a mall, restaurant or bathroom, don't look up. And if they do, they may think your a TS or in transition or a "Pat" and while there are questions, THEY don't care enough to react. Now, the upshot is, because you have confidence, and act like you belong, you are comfortable and that comfort give comfort to others around you. THAT'S the message.