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[PaulaQ]

So what of it? Is anyone here aware of any data or testimonials of those that opted out of transition long term and were fine? Or does the GD monster get everyone eventually?

I've talked with several girls here who are happy, and have not transitioned. There is absolutely a middle-path, and it is viable for many I think.

But you both have to derail that train BEFORE it leaves the station (I channel Dr Phil so much it scares me)

You are right Lorileah. You know something, early on, we faced tough problems when we were first together, and my wife didn't like that I could seem a little passive, a little too concilatory sometimes. And she threatened to go then too. But somehow I always talked her out of it. We'll try it this time too.

@ Barbara Ella - you are right, it is positive that she's still asking questions. Hey, if she shuts me out and makes up her mind, and won't listen to me at all, well, it's a LOT tougher for me to do anything about it. Right now though, I'm still in the game.