Quote Originally Posted by Anne2345 View Post
I do not buy into you being totally oblivious to the situation. Sorry. But I just don't see that you somehow forgot or did not take notice of your presentation before going out to meet your wife and mother-in-law on the deck. I think you did it intentionally. I mean, one just doesn't all of a sudden fall into oblivious la-la land like that before their mother-in-law. Not that there is anything wrong with that. I say OWN it! Obviously, you WANT to. And clearly, at least on a subconscious level, if not an entirely conscious level, desire her to know, otherwise it would not have gone down that way. It's all on you, and how you choose to proceed forward in the face of this is up to you. Don't color it as anything else other than what it is. :-)
I can kind of buy in to it if she was unexpected visit. I'm so comfortable dressing that sometimes forget it and answer door or head out some where and suddenly realize what I'm wearing. Like OP usually just casual fem jeans tops short shorts and under dressed of course.