Nicole, Deimos is a transman. He has no need of BA, FFS, electrolysis or any of those things you mentioned.
Deimos, Nicole does make a good point, though. Transition is driven by WPATH protocols and not state law. I can't offer any useful advice other than to recommend that you visit your local LGBT center and see if they can point you in the direction of some relevant sources to get the answers you need.
