I can relate to what you are saying, Nikki. To me, its all about trying to find the right balance. We will be celebrating our 50th wedding anniversary later this year. I look back over that period of time and can see how blessed I am: three grown kids and two grandkids. Only my wife knows that I dress. My wife insists that I dress only at home when she isn't at home. Would I prefer more than that? Of course I would. But I stick to the agreement and try to think up ways to get her out of the house. Lol.
Norah