Darla;
I had the same as you with my first Marriage. And she then went an told the world that I was a weirdo.
In the 9 + years, I tried to keep it on a low key, But it did not madder.
She would throw out some of my things, I would find them in the trash, and re-hide them.
Then she would find other clothes I had hidden, she would throw them out, then scream at me when
I got home from work.
We had 2 kids at the time, 4 and 2 years old.
It was tough to leave them, but I had to move on; And now I look back some 36 years ago, it was the
best thing that happened to me.
See much later, almost 15 years, I met a real good girl. She was OK with my dressing, and would get me things
from time to time. She Passed away last April, I don't think I could ever replace her.
I offer good Luck, and hope you also find the rite someone for your life.
Rader
