Here's the thing...
The people who wrote "allow" in terms to their relationships probably all meant different things by it. Are some of those people sitting in a dark room with a box of high heels crying, "This is all my wife would allow!!" Well, I hope not. I'm going to guess that a lot of people on this site have a bit of wiggle room.
Many of us ran to the word "compromise," because that's what we saw in our relationships. Is that what every relationship on this forum is about? I have no clue. Most likely not. There are people in terrible relationships all over the world for various reasons...some may even be CDs. Either way, it's really their choice to stay in the relationship. Most countries ALLOW you to get out, if you want.
Next, the whole GGs dressing like crap thing has increasingly bothered me to the point I had to ask a question...
Do you expect women to be apologetic for not looking like something to have sex with 24/7? Sometimes, I just want to walk the dogs in sweats and a pony tail and not be judged on whether or not I look awesome at that point in time...whether or not I'm "hot." Essentially, on a scale of 1-10, how screwable I am at that moment. My neighbor probably has no idea what to think about me...at 6am, I'm rolling to the dumpster with two bags of trash, two dogs, a messy ponytail, a bare face, sweat pants, tennis shoes, and a t-shirt from Class of 2006. That outfit says, "I am going to the trash right now, and I would appreciate it if you would look at me as a human being taking out my trash and not as a piece of ass...but, go ahead and judge me." 2 hours later, I am out the door in my latest awesome ensemble that I put together with idea from Lucky magazine. At that time, I seem to get a lot of attention...but, I also believe that it is due to the fact that it is a more reasonable hour to talk to people...I look much friendlier with coffee in my system.
My point is...women aren't getting dressed up with men in mind. We don't apologize when we aren't "looking hot enough" when we are just trying to get from point A to B. SOMETIMES, we just want to get out the door and stuff done. Are Sponge Bob pajamas ever OK? No. But, for the love of God...just get OVER IT. Women are PEOPLE...not constant runway models that exist in life for your eye candy.
I sincerely hope that you NEVER step out of the house in anything embarrassing. You have no business in flip flops...and, I hope you don't wear baseball hats...or, jeans. How *tacky*...men should be nothing short of GQ.
Even when you mow the lawn...I'm expecting nothing less than Men's Health magazine covers.
Originally Posted by docrobbysherry
