Reine,
I think you are right on to what a Fetish cder is ( and here it comes) except......
Take the "release" part and broaden it.. Sexual Fetishes ( can/may/usually) start from the "release" time ( puberty for most ) but that isn't the end of the "fetish" it becomes a "mental issue".. I use myself as an example my dressing has to fit my fetish ( style of certain clothing,material it's made from and color) or it just doesn't happen..I do not bother..
Starting this fetish was long before the internet and in time has become embedded into me ..Finding this site and trying to learn more about myself ( because I was not aware I had a fetish issue until recently) is why I am here and you are correct I can not related to just about every thread they have here..So in time I will fade away again unless I can get more "like minded" threads such as this one going on now..
Yes that makes me some sorta freak .. Here anywaysI never knew why before ( Guess I am just stupid up there sometimes) but it all makes sense to me now..
Nicole, I know you are not angry and this does become a problem when a small percentage ( to this page) of people like me invade this page.. You have every right to defend, if you will, your turf.. All I wanted to do was have an open discussion maybe we can all learn from each other.. No hard feelings here I think you do very well at explaining yourself and I love getting the input and knowledge you offer to me and other folks at this site..